Listening to: She Used to Be Mine, Sara Bareilles—Waitress It is because of Gretchen Rubin that I found myself in the second row at Waitress on a recent weekend watching Sara Bareilles belt “She Used to Be Mine.” I love Gretchen Rubin’s Happier podcast. I liked the book years ago, but my life was messier then—I was … More Waitress (Show) and A Star Is Born (Film): “the tension inherent in live performance”